We have covered 5 priceless gifts that you, as a parent, can give to your children this season. The 6th and last is no less valuable. In fact, it is the most crucial and has the ability to affect your children’s positive growth in the biggest way!

The ultimate gift you can give to your child is: a loving relationship between you and your spouse.

Great news if your marriage has been sound. But if you think there’s some friction between you and your spouse, it is time to be curious about how you can have a healthier relationship. Studies have shown that when your marriage is stressed internally, no matter how professionally you are hiding the stress, your child can sense it.

However, the rift between a couple can be too great to repair by themselves. In this case, they should seek professional help to solve the issue in a most amicable way so that their child will not be the victim in the end.

In fact, it is often not the marriage that is the issue; the problem is something more innate, embedded much deeper in a parent’s unconsciousness. The stress could stem from a childhood incident or it could be due to a childhood need that was not fulfilled in the past.

More often than not, we bury our most aggravating fear and trauma so deep, we forget about it after many years. Still, because they are not being looked at and understood in a healthy way, they will manifest in the most unknowing ways – ultimately as stress in relationship, severe depression and even resentment of life itself.

This is where specialised Life Coaches come in. They support by uncovering what is unconsciously creating the stress in you and your relationship with your spouse and children.

Remember. Your child is a mirror reflection of you! If your child is misbehaving and giving you stress in some ways, you should be curious about what stress is it in you that your child is reflecting.

She could be craving for the same attention you never had during your childhood. She could be growing up in fear as you did when you were young. Or she could be devoid of the love of her parents, because you did not receive the kind of love and attention you wanted from your parents.

If you want your child to be truly happy, you have to start with yourself (and perhaps your spouse, especially the mother). Learn how you can do so by contacting Jia Huey. Find out what you must immediately do to uncover the innate portion of you that is still not happy or suffering.

Give the 6th priceless gift this season to your child by learning to be happy parents!

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Jia Huey is a Life Coach who helps everyday people like you and me improve our lives in the areas of relationships, parenting, career success, emotional and mental health, psychotrauma, addictions, unhealthy repeated habits, and any areas of “stuckness” in our lives. She is especially apt at facilitating her clients to uncover what is actually unconsciously stopping them from achieving their goals.

Her work is based on Dr Prof Franz Ruppert‘s framework of Identity Oriented Psychotrauma Theory (IOPT). Dr Franz Ruppert is Professor of Psychology at the University of Applied Sciences in Munich, Germany. He gained his PhD in Work and Organisational Psychology at the Technical University of Munich in 1985.

Jia Huey has done life-changing coaching and life-empowering consultations for clients in Singapore and Manila. All of her clients have since found clarity, confidence and empowerment in their lives.

Jia Huey’s life mission is to educate more people in Singapore and Asia to be part of a safe and healthy community where it is okay to admit we are not okay.

The reality is that you are not alone; everyone has some issues however big or small in their life. However, in this day and age, many of us have grown accustomed to these issues… so much so that we have become numb to the stress and suffering that we had buried deep down, are currently experiencing, and will be facing.

The truth is, stress and suffering should not be a norm… your norm. There is really a solution!

If you or someone you know wants to have a healthy relationship or improve an area of her life, you can contact her at JiaHuey.lui@rhemaworks.com.

Keep a look out for upcoming talks and events at www.facebook.com/systemoftheheart.